Tuesday, March 27, 2012

School Rimdo

March 20th, 21st

For the past few days we have been having a rimdo (a religious event) for our school. Because this was such a large event, and there is so much to say about it, I will divide into parts.

Part 1: Expelling the Demons (a.k.a. How Miss Pema’s hair got burnt and why my kitchen table is covered in dirt)

After a day of preparation for the event, the Lama and monks arrived. This was a very important Lama and I was told he was the religious equivalent to the Dasho Dzongda of Gasa. The even began in the assembly hall with a lot of religious chanting. All of the students and staff were present. After a time of chanting, the mask dancers came. These are people who dress in costume with no shoes and have masks over their faces. They have the power to expel demons, and so are essential to the Rimdo, which is supposed to purify the school and get rid of all the badness for the new school year.

So the masked dancers began to dance. I have forgotten to mention that they are carrying flaming torches. They ran around the assembly hall with their fire, expelling demons. This was mildly terrifying to some of the students (while some absolutely loved it). More pressing was the fact that they wave the fire sticks around quite a bit, and people are in danger of burning their clothes/hair. I was able to shield my hair and face, but my neighbor Pema was not so lucky, and they burned a bit of her hair off.

After expelling the demons from the hall, they continued to the rest of the campus, paying particular attention to the hostels. We were told to open our doors so that they could go into our quarters and purify. The masked dancers would run through the room with the fire, followed by the lama who would throw stones and wood powder in the room (which we are not supposed to clean up for three days…so my room is very dirty at the moment). After the lama and the dancers left, Zam and I went through our rooms to check the results. Poor Pema’s bed was covered in the wood powder, but Zam’s room was spotless. As for me, my bed only got a little of it, but they dumped a ton on my table and bukari. After our inspection, we returned to the hall for the end of the ceremony, and a delicious dinner.

The masked dancers preparing to visit the different rooms

Part 2: Rimdo Day

The incense pit that was built for rimdo day and was kept burning all day

We got to sleep in the next day, and then went to the lower class block to see how the Rimdo was going. One classroom had been turned into an altar room for the Lama and the monks to perform the day’s ceremonies, and for people to offer things. Another classroom had been turned into a religious classroom of sorts, where monks sat and chanted all day. And a third room (Zam’s computer lab) had been turned into a makeshift kitchen, so that the teachers could be making tea and food for the lama and monks all day. Because they had to be chanting for most of the day, their throats got understandably tired, so they were provided with tea and juice throughout the day, along with breakfast, lunch, dinner, and snacks.

My co-workers preparing sweet rice for the lama and monks

Some more co-workers enjoying a comedic moment as they waited for lunch

Throughout the day, people went into the altar room to offer clothes, food and money, and to sit and hear the lama and monks, and receive blessings. The teachers all received a nice blessing towards the end of the event (and now we are all wearing our blessing cords for good fortune for the next year). Other then that, I ate a lot of good food, played a little basketball, took a lot of pictures, and had a very enjoyable day. One very interesting thing that happened was one of the girls was possessed by a demon. She claimed to have seen the demon coming after her after the dancers expelled them from the hostel, and had been in hysterics all night, having hallucinations and dreams. Her friends took her to the lama to be blessed and hopefully cured. I haven’t heard any more about it, so I think it worked. It was one of the more unusual things I have observed here; I have seen several girls with fainting fits, but never anything like this.

The altar

After our blessing, we served dinner to the lama and the monks, and then received dinner ourselves. It was again, delicious. The teaching staff spent an enjoyable evening just drinking and eating and chatting, which was very nice. I think everyone had thoroughly enjoyed the Rimdo holiday, and was sufficiently tired as it had involved quite a bit of work for most of the staff. All in all, I thought it was a great 2 days.

Saturday, March 17, 2012

My Greatest Challenge

People (both Bhutanese and friends from the west) often ask me about what is challenging about living in Bhutan. Most Bhutanese people assume my answer will be that it is too remote here and too cold (yes my BCF friends, I don’t know about you but I wear long underwear under my kira everyday), there are no western things around me, and that I must be homesick. My friends from the west assume the answer will be about the foreign foods, difference of language, lack of hot water, taking bucket baths, and not being able to depend on the electricity or water supply. I do not mind the remote environment, I am in no way bothered by cold weather (thanks Antarctica!), and although I miss my friends and family, I am not homesick. Coming here was the right decision for me. The challenges that first come to mind are the kinds that my western friends say- the physical ones. But after being at my placement for over a month, those are negligible if nonexistent now. I am used to the day-to-day life here.

So when asked today about the challenges, I got to thinking about deeper ones. Ones that aren’t easily overcome by time, or are simply physical. And I have come to the conclusion that the biggest challenge for me here is my own independence.

I am a very independent person. It is a simple fact about me, and it’s been that way as long as I can remember. I think I was born with it, like I was born blond. And like the blond, its noticeable. My independence has served me well over the years. I have never been afraid to take the plunge of a new adventure that will take me far away from anything familiar. It is what got me to a college ½ the country away. It is what got me to the bottom of the world in the Antarctic. And for all intensive purposes, it is what got me to Bhutan.

But now that I am here, my independent self has hit a bit of a wall. For the first time, I am having to depend on other people for really simple things, and its difficult! Someone helps me get dressed in the morning, whether its helping me fold my kira (BCF crew- I am trying one of the kiras with ties these days…its warmer, but much harder to get on!) or just fixing the collar of my taego and wonchu. People translate everything that is said for me (even the stuff said in English, which is hilarious and adorable), speak for me at meetings, help me light my bukari and supply firewood, and feed me any meal that I happen to be around for. It is all unbelievably kind and I feel so welcome and part of the Bjishong school family. All of this care is why I am not homesick.

But my independent soul is dying a little. I want to do these things myself- well, actually, I want to be able to do these things myself. I want to know how! I am in awe of these life skills that everyone here has, and feel like I missed out on some important life lessons.

But I am not expected to do things on my own, and after awhile, I figured out something important; No one is. Other people don’t need help tying kiras and lighting bukaris, but everyone helps each other constantly (such as fixing each others hair, getting tea for one another, and making food), and because I am part of their community now, they do the same for me. Because they come from this environment of interdependence its natural for them, but I find myself trying to do things on my own, or more often, feeling guilty that I am not being independent enough. In the beginning I felt bad I was leaning on others as much as I was, thinking it was special treatment I was receiving because I was a new teacher, and a western one. And a part of it was. But now that I have been here a little while and have participated in helping others in my own way, I have realized that I have stumbled onto a significant piece of culture- interdependence. And as I am trying to learn Dzongkha and how to eat the most blistering of ema datsi, I am trying to learn this.

This lesson is my greatest challenge here to date. But as with most difficult lessons, I believe it will also be one of the most rewarding.

Monday, March 5, 2012

His Majesty's Birthday

About a week after school started, it was His Majesty’s Birthday, on February 21st. This is a national holiday, and really quite a big deal here in Bhutan. Everyone celebrates, and schools throw celebrations of their own. This year was particularly special because the main celebration for the entire Gasa district was not going to be at the Dzong (the center of government) like it always had been, but instead here at Bjishong school. The celebrations take a lot of practice in the first place (its what the kids spend their whole first week of school doing) but needless to say, we had to prepare even more than usual since we were the hosts for the whole district (or so I inferred).

This was a dance performance by some of our younger students. And it was the cutest thing I have seen since baby seals in Antarctica. I have a video of it as well...if I am ever blessed with high speed internet I will post it.
The start of the celebration with the students marching

Having never celebrated His Majesty’s Birthday before, I really didn’t know what to expect, and I had nothing to compare it to, but I think it was spectacular. There was a presentation of dances, both cultural and traditional, and some with modern twists. Layap people came down for the celebration, so we got to see some of their traditional dances as well.

Some of the Layap people performing their traditional dance

As strange as it is to see people just preparing for this event for a week straight instead of having classes, I really liked the result. I think it is fortunate that His Majesty’s Birthday falls so early on in the school year, because it is a great way to start it, with an event that everyone is so enthusiastic about. Coincidentally, the 22nd and 23rd of February were Losar, which is Bhutanese New Year, so we had those days off- I got to go down to Punakha and see Noorin, and it was a lovely relaxing break before the start of the academic year.